Showing posts with label Rants. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rants. Show all posts

Why We Will Never Use Expedia Again


We have been traveling a lot more in the past few years, now that the kids are older.  I've used Expedia to book almost everything.  And until this week-end, I was very happy with them.  

A couple of weeks ago we found that we could definitely attend Geowoodstock in Boonsboro MD, over memorial day week-end.  We wanted to camp, but the campgrounds were all full - no surprise.  Memorial day week-end is typically one of the biggest camping week-ends of the year.  So we went online to Expedia, and found a hotel room.

Hotel #1 - The Oak Tree Inn
We booked a room at the Oak Tree Inn in Brunswick.  It was nothing fancy, but it is brand new, and our options were limited, so we booked the room.

Two days before our trip, we received the following email:



This was not really a big deal.  We called, spent 30 minutes on hold, then another 45 minutes with an Expedia rep who upgraded us, at no additional cost to us, to the Hampton Inn in Martinsburg WV.  We love the Hampton Inn. Martinsburg is not where we planned to stay, but it was ok, I could adjust my plans, and it was the same distance, roughly, from Boonsboro.

Hotel #2 - The Hampton Inn
Take note of the itinerary number. That is NOT a reservation number.  It is for expedia - NOT for the Hampton Inn.  We learned that the hard way.  Also note the "your reservation is booked, no need to call".  SO stupid of us to believe that, we should have called!

At about 3:30 on Saturday, we arrive at the Hampton Inn.  When we walk in the door, the desk clerk is screaming into the phone.  The gist of his conversation is that they need to give them refunds, that this hotel has been booked solid for months.  Uh oh.  He slams down the phone, obviously hanging up on whomever he was talking to, and turns to us.  We give him our name, he types into his computer.   He asks if we booked through Expedia or hotels.com, and when we tell him Expedia he, rather rudely, informs us that they have over 30 rooms booked through those companies that they never received the reservations for, and that they reservations could not have been made, because they have been booked solid for months.  They have no room for us.

We call Expedia.  45 minutes on hold, then another two hours on the phone with a representative who has to call the Hampton Inn, then look for another room for us.  This representative refused to look outside of the Martinsburg WV area.  The first hotel she chose for us would not take credit card payments, and did not have a website.  I was concerned.  Since they couldn't take credit card payments, she then found a different hotel for us - the Economy Inn.  We knew nothing about the hotel, but since our current reservations were for the Hampton Inn, we assumed the reservation would be similar, although I was concerned.  I typically like to research our rooms, and this was not a chain we were at all familiar with.  But our options were limited - it was memorial day week-end in an area with several VERY large events occurring at once..  We drive to the Economy Inn.

Hotel #3 - The Economy Inn 

This is the room Expedia booked us.




The pictures do not adequately show the age, and condition.  Everything was stained.  The room was so small that we could not take the bikes off the back of our car and put them in the room with us, and the location was such that we didn't feel safe leaving our bikes locked on the back of our car.  There were people kind of hanging out all around the outsides of the rooms - we got the feeling that some of them probably lived there.  It just didn't feel like an area we really wanted to be in.

Another call to Expedia.  This time it took an hour to get a person on the line, and while we were talking to them, we lost cell service.  So we had to start all over.  ANOTHER hour on hold (45 minutes I believe) and we explain the issue.  

While we're on hold with Expedia, it is getting late, so we start checking our options and calling hotels in nearby Hagerstown.  We finally found a room at the Hilton in Hagerstown - their last available room.  

When we get through to Expedia, we try to explain the issues, but they can't understand why we "cancelled our reservations at the Hampton Inn".  We could not get them to understand that we did NOT cancel our reservations, the Hampton Inn had no record of us ever having reservations!  We finally told him that it didn't matter - we booked our own room - and that we just wanted our money back.

And we were then told we could not get our money back, that the money was paid directly to the Economy Inn.

And that my friends is why we will never, ever, use Expedia again.  We lost half a day, of a two day trip, on the phone and driving out of our way to different hotels, only to end up booking our own room and STILL having to pay for the dump expedia finally booked for us.

A Note About the Hampton Inn - 

On Sunday morning at the hotel where we ended up staying (booked on our own, NOT through Expedia) we met another couple who had the exact same problem- they also arrived at the Hampton Inn  to find that they did not have a reservation, even though Expedia had sent them an email confirming that they did.

I posted pics on twitter, commenting that we either had to stay in this dump (at the time we had probably called 12 different hotels, none of which had vacancies) or drive home.  The Hampton Inn got back to me almost immediately. They wanted details, asked for the email to be forwarded, and apologized repeatedly, and THEY want to see what they can do to make this up to us.  I don't really think this was their fault - it might be a problem with their reservation system not working with Expedia, but it was definitely expedia we were having the problem with.  We're likely to stay in a Hampton Inn in the future - but we will book it ourselves, not through a 3rd party - and we'll call to confirm our reservation before going out the door.



Why I Won't Wear Pink In October


Today I put the bright pink cover on my miche bag.  I checked the calendar first, to be sure it was November, and that it is once again safe for me to wear pink.

I know it practically makes me anti american, but I will not wear pink in October.  I will not buy pink duct tape, or pink shopping bags.  Even when the pink flatiron with the ribbon on it goes on 75% clearance, I'll  pay more for a non pink version - it bothers me that much. 

I avoided an entire town for the month of October, because they were "painting the valley pink" for October.  All of the stores were decked out in pink, one with bras used outside as a "humorous"  display.  I didn't research how much of their profits they were donating to any sort of cancer research or support - but my guess would be that it's awfully close to 0%.  

Because that's the second lie in all of this pink.  That by buying pink, you are supporting something - research, or mammograms, or something.  (Amazingly, most people have no idea what they are even contributing towards - and not all cancer research money is spent equally. )
 
"Get your very own FREE Think Before You Pink® Toolkit containing all the information and tools you need to deepen your understanding of the politics of breast cancer and help others learn the truth about breast cancer and pink ribbon marketing. - See more at: http://www.bcaction.org/2013/09/10/pinktober-alert/#sthash.OW6EHYUl.dpuf"

But the first lie, the one that annoys me the most, is that wearing pink shows support, or promotes awareness.

High school football teams all across the area have a "pink out" night.  Some of the cheer squads spend around $100 for pink uniforms & poms just for that night.  The football players wear pink socks and pink arm bands.  Pink balloons & streamers decorate the stadiums.

How does this make one single person more "aware" of breast cancer?  I do know of one local High School that fundraised before their pink out night, then at half time presented a check to a non profit cancer society.  Kudos to them.  That kind of action I can get behind. 

"People go around showing off their new pink swag like they're the bee's knees, but ask them what the symptoms of inflammatory breast cancer are, or if they've heard of triple negative breast cancer, or lymphedema, and you'll get a blank stare and a change of subject. Thinking you are becoming more aware is a hell of a lot different than actually being more aware. " http://www.huffingtonpost.com/seporah-raizer/cancer-messed-with-the-wr_2_b_4202781.html
 
Pink socks on my football player?  Pink pom poms and shirts where none of the proceeds go towards anything at all?  That annoys, and baffles me.  One mom told me it's because "so many of the boys know someone who has suffered from breast cancer and they want to show their support".  Ok...  Then how about on a Saturday they mow the families grass, rake the leaves, buy her a meal and deliver it, wash her car...  We are teaching our children that saying we support something shows our support, when we should be teaching them the actions that actually are helpful and supportive.

"The monthlong celebration of breast cancer awareness, now known as "Pinktober," kicked off last week when the mailman delivered our family's copy of Sports Illustrated for Kids. On the cover was a pink-clad NFL-er promoting -- along with everyone else -- breast cancer awareness month, or BCAM.   We have reached the happy point where Pinktober now targets a demographic group of 11.5- year-old boys with a vague "awareness" message."  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/brian-reid/poverty-breast-cancer_b_997417.html

What might be enlightening, for pink out nights, ONLY those directly effected by breast cancer wear pink.  If your mother, aunt, sister, or cousin has breast cancer, wear the pink socks, or pink t-shirt.  One night of the year, not all month.  

And think about that a minute please.  Veterans Day is one day.  Pinktober is 31 days.  Please, let that sink in.  

Do a google search on "Pinktober" and you will find story after story after story from women who are suffering from breast cancer and shudder to see the color pink.  It doesn't support them.  It annoys them.  It hurts them.  It embarrasses them.  Those who are proud to wear pink are often, intentionally or unintentionally  completely self centered.  "Look at me!  I'm wearing pink!  I donated 2 cents to some random charity I know nothing about so I can wear this pink shirt and you all will know how much I care!"  

"A friend shared with me what happened at the beginning of the Kansas City Chiefs game.  Here's the video in all it's non-glory (assuming you can get through the 30 second commercial at the front end).  Forty-nine...yes 49 planes flew over Arrowhead Stadium spewing pink smoke.  kctv5.com/video I watch that video, and I just have to wonder -- How many mammograms that would have paid for???" 

And the 3rd lie..  Breasts are the most important thing about women.  "Save the tatas".  We'd never hear "Save the testicles", now would we?  There's no month devoted to some color for colon cancer, or testicular cancer, or even, pediatric cancers.  (I can't imagine a local business displaying jock straps the way they displayed bras this month) An entire month, year after year, devoted to breast cancer.  Not human trafficking, not support for our Veterans, not even cancer in general.   

The most ridiculous "support" advertisement I saw on facebook this year was "free the tatas!"  A day to go bra-less, to "show support".  Uhm..  avoiding the obvious disrespect for women who have just had mastectomy's due to this illness you are "showing support for" - isn't going bra-less an obvious physical sign of LACK of support?  I'm assuming some man came up with this idea, in order to get his co-workers and female friends to take off their bras.  What amazes me is how many women I know who spread this around facebook.

So, so, so well written.. share this instead of the graphic below!
Look at the Ad. Not the half naked woman, READ what it says above it.  This was all over facebook this month.  "Support Breast Cancer".  Not support awareness, not support research - support breast cancer.   Oh yes, aren't we all very "aware"...  

Next October, instead of wearing Pink, send this article to your girlfriends:

Schedule your mammogram, and nag your friends to schedule theirs.

Or don't wait.  Share it now.  Because breast cancer, contrary to popular belief, is not an October disease, and wearing pink will not stop it.